How soon is soon enough?

In this dance of dating… how do you decide when to have sex with a new partner?

Do you have a set number of dates?

Wait for a feeling?

Wait a certain length of time?

 

I’m just curious how the rest of you are doing this? ¬†Clearly I need help figuring this part out.

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I’m not proud of this but…

I sometimes give up on myself.

I give up the hope and belief that good things will happen for me when it comes to love…hell, when it comes to life.

I have to combat negative self-talk way more than I’d like to admit (though far less in the past 2 years than ever before.).

But as I give up hope there is a nagging little voice, ¬†that I like to equate to Tinkerbell, that semi-whispers into my heart that there is hope…that it could be… that the dreamer/fairy tale princess inside of me can actually win.

This week, Tinkerbell whispered with a photograph.